©2017 Bill Murphy
Occasionally I’ll see an obit photo of a person in their early 20s and think, What a shame – to die so young! Then I read the obit and find that the person was actually 97. I suppose they wanted to be remembered as being young.
I’ve told my children that the photo at left is the one I want with my obit – when days were care-free – with not a worry in the world!
The truth is: this photo could very well have been my obit photo – within months of when the photo was taken!
My grandparents lived next door to us on Evergreen Ave. in south Jackson. ‘Doodleville’ we called it. Grandpa Fairchild took me with him on long walks, mostly on the railroad tracks. That’s him in the background, in the swing.
My grandmother took me with her downtown, to the movies – and shopping.
Downtown Jackson of the 40s was a far cry from what it is today. The city was not covered with shopping centers. If you wanted to shop, it was downtown – where you could make a once in a lifetime purchase like a wedding diamond, or everyday items like groceries. It was a busy, bustling place!
I was downtown with Mamaw Fairchild. Back then, there were NO one-way streets. We were standing on the corner of Capitol and West streets, on Capitol, facing west toward the Post Office. I suppose I tired of having to wait for the light to change. I yanked my little hand away from Mamaw – and bolted out into the street.
That was the last thing I remember – until I woke up cradled in the arms of a big policeman. Mamaw was rather hysterical!
Witnesses said that a car traveling north on West Street was turning right onto Capitol. I walked – or ran – into the side of the car. The sharply turning car ‘pushed’ me down – and the rear wheels of the car ran over me! Fortunately, the two rear tires didn’t flatten me – I lay BETWEEN THEM as the car passed over by body.
I probably had a bump on my head, but I don’t remember having ANY injuries – none at all. But poor Mamaw was a basket case.
It was many years later before I had the information at hand to put 2 and 2 together, as to why this incident affected my grandmother so terribly.
Just over 30 years before my run-over incident, Mama Fairchild had lost a child of her own – a daughter named Violet. She was weeks shy of 4 years old. She accidentally ingested rat poison. As mothers do, no doubt Mamaw Fairchild felt responsible for Violet’s death – feeling that she somehow failed to protect her.
Deja vu. Now it was her grandson.
No grandma, it wasn’t your fault! I was the one who broke and ran. It was me – me – me. I’m sorry I put you through that. I truly am. Look at the photo. I’m sure that mother told me not to play in the dirt.
Technically, I didn’t. Ashes from burnt leaves aren’t dirt – are they?